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COMPASS ONLINE

A Digital Help Toward Renewal from QuietWaters Ministries

Volume 9, Number 5 May 2009
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Greetings!

The vision of Quiet Waters Ministries is to “To ensure that every Christian leader and their families have a place to seek and find restoration and renewal.”
I’ve been thinking a lot about our vision because after nine years of using a private home as our Retreat Home for our Leadership Counseling intensive, we are seeking a permanent “place.”
You will see that I put a great deal of importance in “place” as you read the following article.  Please join us in prayer for our new Quiet Waters Ministries “place” for restoration and renewal.
Blessings,
 
Jim

Quiet Place
by Jim Schlottman

 

Then, because so many people were coming and going that they did not even have a chance to eat, he said to them, “Come with me by yourselves to a quiet place and get some rest.” Mark 6:31

Where is your quiet place?
A few years ago I shared with you the comments of a pastor who told me, “Some days I would like to just look out the window of my office and commune with God, but I’m afraid that someone will come in and think I’m just goofing off.”
Working with pastors on a daily basis as I do, you can guess my response, “You have my permission to goof off with God anytime, and you should goof off with him more often.”

Evidently this pastor’s only quiet place was his office.  Maybe that was part of the problem.  He should have sought out a more private quiet place.

In our fast-paced society and because of the nature of your call to be a pastor, I’m sure you often find that like Jesus so many people are coming and going that you don’t even have a chance to eat.  The problem I see is that many of you don’t follow Jesus’ example and go to a quiet place to get some rest.

Some pastors in the Denver metro area spend a day at Sacred Heart, a local Catholic facility just outside of town, for self-guided retreats.  We have plans to provide such retreats when we secure our new retreat home.

For many pastors, Quiet Waters has been their quiet place as they attended one of our Leadership Counseling Intensives.
 
Again I ask you, “where is your quiet place?”  The answer may be that you don’t have a quiet place.  Or maybe you know where your quiet place is, but you just haven’t had time to go there.

When you look around your community, I’m certain that you can find many quiet places.  Pick one and call it your own. 

I found a little chapel on the grounds of Downing House that is just perfect.  The problem is I seldom go to that little chapel.

However, recently I had the opportunity to sit by a fireplace in a mountain cabin on a rainy day and read John Grisham’s The Pelican Brief.  Talk about rest.  Yes, and I’m sure that God enjoyed the time too.  It’s not always about praying and Bible reading-even though those should be important activities in your rest.

After you find that quiet place, go there and spend some quality time with God and rest in His arms.  Listen to Jesus when He says, “Come with me by yourselves to a quiet place and get some rest.”

 

2009 QuietWaters Leadership Retreat
For pastors and church boards
Scheduled for July 23-26, 2009 HAS BEEN CANCELLED

 
We regret that due to a lack of registration we have cancelled this Retreat.  If you would like information about how you and your church board can learn to work in partnership, please contact Jim Schlottman at 866-5-Waters (866-592-8377).
The QuietWaters Compass Online is published monthly as a free service of QuietWaters Ministries, whose mission is to renew, restore, and strengthen Christian leaders and their families. Opinions expressed in this publication are not necessarily those of QuietWaters Ministries, its personnel or trustees. Material contained in this publication is not intended as a substitute for the professional assistance you can receive from a counselor, or health care provider. Requests for permission to reprint articles should be directed to the editor at the address below.
 
James L. Schlottman
QuietWaters Ministries
(303) 639-9066
 
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The Frog Run

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COMPASS ONLINE

A Digital Help Toward Renewal from QuietWaters Ministries

Volume 9, Number 4 April 2009
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Greetings!

When I receive a call enquiring about our counseling program from a pastor, a pastoral spouse, or a missionary, I’m often talking to someone who is tired and burned out.   Burn out does come from over work, but not over work alone.  Burn out occurs when over work is accompanied by discouraging words from those around you.  Are you feeling defeated by negative words spoken by a congregation member?  Then read on and learn a lesson from a frog.
 
Please forward this Compass Online to someone who would be encouraged to read about frogs.
 
Your church board would benefit from “Team Renewal.”  Forward this Compass Online issue to your leaders and encourage them to consider joining us this summer for the Leadership Retreat, “Overcoming the Peaks and Valleys.” 
 
Check out the Coupon below. 
 
Blessings,
 
Jim
 

The Frog Run

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by Jim Schlottman
Once upon a time there was a bunch of tiny frogs who arranged a running competition.  The goal was to reach the top of a very high tower.  A big crowd had gathered around the tower to see the race and cheer on the contestants.  The race began.
 
Honestly:  No one in the crowd really believed that the tiny frogs would reach the top of the tower.  You heard statements such as:  “Oh, WAY too difficult!”  “They will NEVER make it to the top.”  Or:  “Not a chance that they will succeed.  The tower is too high!”

 

The tiny frogs began collapsing one by one. Except for those, who in a fresh tempo were climbing higher and higher. The crowd continued to yell, “It is too difficult!  No one will make it!”  More tiny frogs got tired and gave up.

 

But ONE continued higher and higher and higher.  This one wouldn’t give up!

 

At the end everyone else had given up climbing the tower.  Except for the one tiny frog who, after a big effort, was the only one who reached the top!

 

THEN all of the other tiny frogs naturally wanted to know how this one frog managed to do it?  A contestant asked the tiny frog how he had found the strength to succeed and reach the goal.  It turned out that the winner was DEAF!

 

The wisdom of this story is:  Never listen to other people’s tendencies to be negative or pessimistic, because they take your most wonderful dreams and wishes away from you–the ones you have in your heart!

 

Always think of the power words have.  “The tongue has the power of life and death” (Proverbs 18:21).

 

A friend sent me this email; you may have received it too.  As I read this story, I thought of its application to you as a pastor-Christian leader.  It may be the whispered words or the overheard comments that invade your dreams. 

 

It may be the well meaning leaders who say:  “Oh, WAY too difficult a program for our church.”  “You will NEVER make that budget.”  “Not a chance that we will succeed with that program.”  “The goal is too high.”  Sound familiar?

 

The most important statement in the email was that above all:  Be DEAF when people tell YOU that you cannot fulfill your dreams!

 

Remember:  Jesus looked at them and said, “With man this is impossible, but not with God; all things are possible with God.”  (Matthew 19:26 and Mark 10:27)

 

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2009 QuietWaters Leadership Retreat
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July 23 – 26, 2009

 
Join us this summer at beautiful Snow Mountain Ranch to discover how you can lead better together. Whether you’re a Pastor or lay leader join us as we explore leadership from the perspective of love-trust relationships, as collaborative covenant, as strengthening relationships in the midst of conflict. Our leadership is a Kingdom of God matter, He is relying on us! 

 

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When a pastor and two church board members register for the “Overcoming the Peaks and Valleys”  Leadership Retreat July 23-26, 2009, the pastor receives a $100 discount on his/her registration fee. 
 
To redeem this coupon, simply register the three of you and then send an email to [email protected] requesting your $100 discount.  Please include the promo code “Our Team.” 
 
Upon verification of your registrations your church will be sent a check for $100.
 
Feel free to share this special coupon offer and promo code with friends by forwarding this Compass Online.
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The QuietWaters Compass Online is published monthly as a free service of the QuietWaters Ministries, whose mission is to renew, restore, and strengthen Christian leaders and their families. Opinions expressed in this publication are not necessarily those of QuietWaters Ministries, its personnel or trustees. Material contained in this publication is not intended as a substitute for the professional assistance you can receive from a counselor, or health care provider. Requests for permission to reprint articles should be directed to the editor at the address below.
 
James L. Schlottman
QuietWaters Ministries
(303) 639-9066
 
© Copyright 2009 by
QuietWaters Ministries
Bethesda Foundation, Inc.
All rights reserved.

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The Frog Run
Overcoming the Peaks and Valleys
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